Is “hating” and “attacking” the only emotion black people know to call upon for every human situation and interaction because there is something else….. It is called tough love
Tough love makes it impossible to "get your own act together before you work on someone else!!! Because… we are all intertwined in “ all for one and one for all” and “a chain is only a strong as its weakest link.”
If you are living together under the same roof with 4 family members and you are the only one that has a job then tough love based on the dynamic of "one for all and all for one” and “a chain is only a strong as the weakest link." makes it impossible that you can "get your own act together before you work on someone else!!!"
Why: because… there are 4 people that are not working in your pocket.
If you are related, married or friends then you want to "get your own act together” as one unit but in order to ""get your own act together" you must work on the weakest link. A.K.A ~ "work on someone else!!!"
You can only "get your own act together" as fast as the people you give a damn about is moving unless…A person decides to abandon ship, let those they care about sink, drown or swim while he or she go for themselves.
There have been countless black people that choose instead to abandon ship, let black people do their own thing and go for themselves and they all got a rude awaking when white America kicked them in the ass, called them ni%#ers, imprisoned, isolated, exploited and sent them back to us more dead than alive.
Is that what black America call "get your own act together before you work on someone else!!!" because if it is forget about it. Tough love keeps the team motivated, focused and committed but requires discipline, teamwork and military precision.
Multiply that tough love by 37.5 million African Americans where in order for just one black person to "get their own act together” must get 37.5 million African Americans moving as one unit.
As long as you have other people you care about in your pocket then forget about.. ~"Get your own act together before you work on someone else!!!" ~
The dynamics of tough love say’s ~ you will have to work on someone elses situation to improve your own.