Cheating?

[Shakeera Frazer]

Cheating has become so common. There are websites that specialize in cheating such as affairmatch.com, marrieddatelink.com, AshleyMadison.com, and that is only a few. So I ask it possible to find everything you want in one person or is that being unrealistic? Can you find excitement and stability in the same person? great sex and companionship in the same person? Or do you need one person to completely be yourself with, one to talk on the phone with, one to have sex with, one to shop with, one for excitement, and one for stability? or can we find the perfect balance in one mate? Or is cheating acceptable?

[ClaudiusCJ]

The only thing that is ever acceptable is what you allow. For some of us the shopping list of qualities that we seek in a partner is quite long. Realistically that shopping list should be a reflection of the qualities that we have cultivated within ourselves. We get as little or as much as we expect, so my philosophy is to offer all that I have and to expect the same. The Law of Attraction dictates that we get what we think about. I suggests that if you want to fulfill all of your desires in a partner that you project your desire for just that. Until that day comes our time is best spent making ourselves the best that we can be. If we make ourselves as whole as possible then we can be assured that we will attract a partner that is also whole. I say "Keep the faith" and enjoy the time that you are alone.

[Shakeera Frazer]

Very well said. I do agree with you that a person definitely attractes what they put out and If you are complete you do seek to find someone that is also complete. A mistake many of us often make is looking for a mate that may possess the qualities that we don't and in turn they are actually not complete themselves, so we seek people that make up a little of everything until we find that whole. I have so many girlfriends that often complain about finding "Mr. Right" and wishing that they could combine a little piece of each man they date.